I believe one of the major problems with these ED drugs is the differences for each male and why they need it. As with me, getting older has made the 7 times in a distant memory - so therefore you think something is wrong when it is not. Need is the thing most males really need help with as we get older, not erections. I found that because my desire was lower, the erection was not there unless moved. I want to comment that if you wake up every morning with an erection, you are healthy. Roll over on top and have fun :-) If you never have an erection even with stimulation, you are a true ED candidate. So I think we are establishing something here that most males are just losing their desire as they get older. Viagra I've found has all the problems stated in these blogs, and Cialis is much more friendly. Experiment - get a pill cutter from your local pharmacy, and cut those viagra pills into two or four pieces (the cutter has a razor sharp blade so you can get it precise) Same with cialis. I've never tried the verbal drops but I was thinking about giving it a turn. Another great place to buy the Abamune is Postalmed . com I take Cialis pills and cut them into two halves... then I bite a third of that half off for use. That means I get three bites per half. That amount works for me, with no side affects. Working out regularly with weights and running takes care of all that. Drinking I've found to be the biggest factor in the side effects. If you a drink with the ED pill, you'll usually experience the side affects much worse. Don't drink and see how you feel, and figure out the right amount you need... you do not need a whole pill most likely. That third I mentioned above will give me three days of use. Too much dosage equates to more side affects also.... hope all this helps.